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2:53 pm • 26 May 2023 • 40 notes
Anonymous asked:
do you have a gf?
kind of a complicated question.
currently, no girlfriend. that doesn’t mean i don’t have romantic connections in my life, but i am not committed to any one of them.
i am bicoastal due to my schooling situation, and because of that a girl i was dating more seriously and i have been separated for the summer. also i might move to a different school because my school is having problems so if i do, i’d be in an entirely different state than she would be.
i’m not really opposed to long distance, it’s just hard and i’m young so i don’t think that stress would be helpful. i’m also not polyamorous so i wouldn’t want to have an open relationship either.
depending on my schooling situation in the fall, i’m going to start dating more seriously. last year all i really did was hookups and i was in a situationship for entirely too long but it was a learning experience thankfully!
for now at home before school i’m just having fun and i’ve gotten to spend some time with some absolutely wonderful, brilliant, and gorgeous women and i’m grateful for that!
9:36 am • 7 August 2023 • 1 note
Anonymous asked:
what online dating apps do you use and what are they like? i'm considering getting into that stuff but also it sounds a bit like a living nightmare, any insight would be much appreciated
hey! so i personally only use hinge and tinder. recently deleted my tinder because i like starting fresh when i move to a new place or once every few months. hinge is definitely more relationship minded and overall i’ve found better people there, but i’ve met plenty of amazing people on tinder although typically the hookup crowd is there. you’ll also come to find people who are using one dating app are typically using multiple (for example, a hinge user may also use bumble, a tinder user may also use HER, etc). fair warning, dating apps are a living nightmare but there are some really amazing people on there so ill create a quick guide here to get you started!
first i’ll put my two cents about the different apps.
Tinder
pros: super easy to use and get started with, largest user base, good catfish prevention methods, lots of variety, profile can be well-rounded, overall it’s the most popular for a reason
cons: fewer users seeking commitment, conversations can be a chore, swiping repeatedly can cause you to swipe left on people you would usually swipe right on, gamifies dating, i mean it’s tinder.
Hinge
pros: gorgeous app design, profiles generally are better rounded and have more conversation starters, limited likes a day means more quality likes, higher quality people, more people looking for commitment, you can start a conversation through the like feature by adding a comment which is nice
cons: less intuitive design, limited likes (you can upgrade if you so desire), fewer catfish prevention methods (verification was a recent add-on but needs work)
Bumble
pros: it’s basically another knock off tinder, good user base, tinder but for more serious daters typically, BFF and Business features are great for networking
cons: i really just don’t like the app. i’ve seldom seen people i find attractive. works for a lot of people though!
HER
pros: lots of gay women!
cons: very gendery. lots of TIMs. knock-off tinder, smaller user base, not worth it IMO. normies don’t use this.
Lex
pros: fun concept, missed-connections style
cons: it’s just literally all TIMs and TIFs. gender war zone. don’t recommend. normies don’t use this.
uncharted territory: Eharmony, Plenty o Fish, OKCupid, HILY (these aren’t really popular among my generation so I can’t give my input)
In my opinion, set yourself up with a Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. Ignore the other apps. just try those three out when you have some time, then delete them if you decide you don’t like any given one. plenty of people LOVE Bumble I just don’t use it because I have a deep seated aversion to it for some reason. set up your account when you’re with a friend and have them help you pick your best photos and pick your prompts. use voice prompts on Hinge! those are always fun.
when you’re on the app pay attention to the profiles details and don’t just swipe right because someone is cute. I’d say big red flags are: people who only use photos with filters or group photos, have super lengthy bios talking about their extensive physical/mental health issues and treaties on all their ideologies, people who say they’re toxic/have anger issues/etc. also people who just look weird or unhinged or don’t have any light behind their eyes. go with your gut. many people are quick to tell you exactly who they are.
only swipe on people you can see yourself actually meeting up with. also many apps allow you to say what you’re looking for and so pay attention to that: if you’re looking for a long term relationship and they’re looking for a hookup, it won’t be compatible and you definitely won’t be the one to change their mind.
I hope this was helpful! If you have any more questions my ask box is always open!
1:32 am • 7 August 2023 • 2 notes
castrationer-deactivated2020080:
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(via radicaluterus)
2:25 pm • 6 August 2023 • 5,220 notes
genderoutlaws:
bananapeppers:
thesociologicalcinema:
“Mad women fight back”; “Bet your ass we’re paranoid” - Psychiatric survivors during a protest in 1976
the woman on the right is Saralinda Grimes, and I believe that this photo may have been taken at the June 29–July 29, 1976 sleep-in in the office of California Governor Jerry Brown enacted by members of Network Against Psychiatric Assault and Women Against Psychiatric Assault, documented in Madness Network News 4, no. 1 (1976). I welcome correction.
in her own words, Saralinda Grimes was a “deaf Native American lesbian feminist” (Madness Network News 4, no. 3 [1977], 9). she was active with Women Against Psychiatric Assault.
and the woman on the left is Jenny Miller! you can find most of her writing in Madness Network News under the pen name “Arrow”
(via rhymes-with-smurf)
9:36 am • 6 August 2023 • 66,567 notes
exposinglesbophob:
Trans allies, I’d advise you take a look at what you’re supporting. Trans people, I’d advise you take a look at what your ideology is enforcing. Lesbians, I’d advise you take a look at what men are saying you should do with your vaginas. Women, I’d advise you take a look at what men are saying you should be. Everyone, I’d advise you wake up from this brainwashed stupor you’ve all been under and realise that transwomen aren’t oppressed. They aren’t marginalised. They aren’t powerless. They are playing you. They hate you. They want to strip women of their rights, enforce conversion therapy upon gay people, subject little girls to seeing grown men’s penises in their changing rooms. THIS is what’s going on. And if, after looking at all the evidence on this drive, all the articles, all the pedophiles and the rapists and the murderers, you still support transwomen and their ideology? Well then I’d ask you if you truly have a conscience at all.
(via sexhaversdni-deactivated2023070)
7:12 pm • 5 August 2023 • 436 notes
